Virginia and Six Other States Still Classify Cohabitation as Illegal
Laws: Couples living together outside marriage can be cited for "lewd, lascivious" conduct
and rejected for certain jobs.
August 20, 2001 by Robin Fields
The question lurked toward the bottom of a six-page affidavit, part of her application to become a juvenile probation officer in Phoenix. "Are you living in open and notorious cohabitation?" it asked, adding that doing so was a
misdemeanor sex offense that would disqualify her for employment.
"I thought, well, I keep the blinds closed," said Debbie Deem of her then eight-year live-in relationship with her male partner. "This is none of the state's business." At a time when new census data show that more American couples than ever are living together outside marriage, seven states still ban such arrangements. Arizona is no longer one of them, having repealed its law in May.
But in Florida, Michigan, Mississippi, North Carolina, North Dakota, Virginia and West
Virginia, "lewd and lascivious" male-female cohabitation remains illegal, a reminder that
in parts of the nation, the conservative past still rubs up against the more liberal
Most such laws date from the 19th century; several lump cohabitation in with prohibitions against adultery and fornication. Typically, the offense is a misdemeanor punishable by a short prison term or a fine of up to $500. The statutes are rarely enforced, but they still can have dramatic effects, even if violators are never directly charged.
The state of Virginia, for example, has threatened not to renew the home day-care license of a Norfolk woman because a state inspector categorized her live-in partner of 17 years as her companion, rather than as a boarder, as previous inspectors had done. The ACLU has
taken up her case. "I was really upset," said Darlene Davis, adding that she had never misrepresented her relationship to state regulators. "This is how I make my living. Why now, after all these
In Charlotte, N.C., U.S. Magistrate Carl Horn habitually asks defendants, regardless of why they are before him, if their living arrangements violate the state's no-cohabitation law. If so, he refuses to release them unless they agree to marry, move or get their partner to relocate.
Dozens of people have been moved to marry, and at least one has proposed right in the courtroom. In states where private citizens can file misdemeanor criminal charges without triggering police investigations, people sometimes pursue cohabitation complaints against former spouses, often to gain leverage in divorce or custody disputes, attorneys said.
The laws do not appear to provide much of a deterrent to cohabitation, however. In the decade of the '90s, the number of unmarried-partner households nearly doubled from about 500,000 to more than 930,000 in the seven states that still ban cohabitation. By comparison, the nation overall experienced a 15% increase in the number of such households.
Gay-rights and singles-rights groups have joined forces to lobby against the measures still lingering on the books. "It's out of sync with reality," said Thomas Coleman, executive director of the American Assn. for Single People. Debbie Deem had a different solution. Sick of feeling like an outcast in Arizona, she moved to California several years ago, settling in Camarillo. "After a certain point, I just said, 'Get me out of here,' " she said. "If I'm considered a sex offender . . . it's time to go."
Update: Virginia court strikes down law against sex by singles
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